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Ishmael Hodges's avatar

Don’t feel bad about posting your thoughts on a topic that you see others talking about. There’s a good chance those of us who are subscribed to you aren’t subscribed to them, so yours may be the only voice we hear on a given subject.

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Monique Einwechter's avatar

That’s a good point, thank you. I hadn’t considered that and it definitely removes some of the stress.

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ParadoxicallyChristian's avatar

I think there's a cultural tension between literature being considered 'adult' in the sophisticated sense, and 'adult' in the sexual sense at the heart of this discussion. We're often uncomfortable mixing the two things.

I agree with you that sex is an expression of our humanity that's appropriate to explore through writing, even graphically, and we shouldn't gatekeep 'literature' to exclude it.

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Monique Einwechter's avatar

That’s very good insight - I think you’re right. And I do think it can be done poorly. I see it a lot as a romance reader. So many people rely on shock value or extremely unrealistic portrayals, neither of which do I think does any justice to the subject.

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